So, word on the street is that this is the last week of classes. Apparantly, there is this finals week thing next week, that I don’t have to go to because I’m a senior. And after that is done, graduation? Only, they are calling it Commencement. It sounds fancy, yes, I know. I didn’t come up with it.
My beautiful sister, Angela Renee, is graduating from high school in just a few days. I guess Viriginia, my friend Ryan’s sister, is also graduating. She’s kinda cool, too (haha, you know I’m kidding). Congratulations to you both, and enjoy your summers and everything that college has to offer you! Also, smart choice on not becoming engineers. Come visit me in California because I’m going to be lonely as hell. I love you both.
So anyway, all this Commencment stuff has gotten me thinking about that song that came out when I was in high school, “Everybody’s Free (to wear sunscreen)”.
Don’t be reckless with other people’s hearts, don’t put up with people who are reckless with yours.
Remember compliments you receive, forget the insults; if you succeed in doing this, tell me how.
Keep your old love letters, throw away your old bank statements.
Be nice to your siblings; they are your best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.
Understand that friends come and go, but for the precious few you should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle because the older you get, the more you need the people you knew when you were young.
It was a good song, and had some good advice. And now that I’m graduating again, its good to look back on it and see how many of those things I’ve been holding onto these past four years, and how many I’ve forgotten. I still have a shoebox full of every hushedly passed note from Freshman and Sophomore year of high school (even a few from you, Kelley!).
I know that I have a tendancy to be overbearing, and I’m sure that I’ve burned a few bridges and lost a few wonderful friendships, or prevented wonderful friendships from forming in the first place. I apologize for all of those things, and the one person they hurt the most is probably myself. Some people here are anxious about getting out of Terre Haute. I’ve said it a few times, myself. I’m sure some people mean it. For what its worth, I am glad that I met the people I did at Rose-Hulman, and I really, truly will miss you all.